Hi! I'm Caitlin, wife of James and mama of Maxwell. I am a proud USCG wife, former ballerina, photographer, and retail manager. Being a working mom isn't easy, and this blog gets {seriously} neglected now and then {most of the time}, but I keep up with it when I can.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Implantation dip?

I think I may have experienced an implantation dip on cycle day 14.  I'm not totally sure as I've obviously never had one before, but that's sure what it looks like and the timing fits.  I took a test today because I was feeling impatient, but it was negative.  Not surprising since even if I was pregnant, it probably wouldn't show up yet.  Most of the other charts on Fertility Friend that had implantation dips didn't tested negative until 3 or 4 days after noting the dip on the chart.  So I'm thinking I'll test again on Monday or Tuesday even though I was going to wait until next Saturday.
My chart




Negative test 2 & 3 days after implantation dip, positive test 4 days after.


Negative test on day of implantation dip, positive test 3 days after.


Negative test 1, 2, & 3 days after implantation dip, positive test 4 days after.


Negative test on day of implantation dip, positive test 3 days after.

Thursday, January 13, 2011

I hate the wait.

I really must be the most impatient person on the planet.  This morning when I woke up (7 DPO) I found myself trying to justify taking a pregnancy test early.  Every crazy reason was flying through my head:  Maybe since I've been feeling nauseous lately (but that could be due to anything), maybe since my boobs have been sore (that could be due to my period being 6 days away), maybe since tomorrow is 5 days before my expected period and what's one extra day (maybe I'm ridiculous).  Seriously, this is the inner battle I have with myself every morning during the 2 week wait.  When that day comes that I have to wake up to pee on a stick, I'll be up at 5:30am just to find out.


Sunday, January 2, 2011

WTF?

Before I say what I'm about to say, I'd like to preface it with the fact that I am not yet frustrated with the process of getting pregnant.  I know that it takes time and most professionals in the health field agree that it can take, on average, 8-12 months for a woman's cycles to return to normal after being on the pill.  Especially if she was on it for an extended period of time.  We're only on our 5th try, so I'm still in the "it will happen when it happens" mindset.

However.  I am SO shocked at the fact that so many people who are NOT trying to get pregnant and are even trying to prevent pregnancy seem to have the easiest time getting pregnant.  I don't understand why that is.  This thought is prompted by the fact that I was watching the 16 and Pregnant finale and one of the teens that ended up pregnant was fully on birth control.  I'm not saying she used it perfectly, but I'm not using it at all and I'm still not pregnant (well maybe not, we'll know soon) after 7 months of not using any forms of contraceptives and actively trying on the correct days for 5 months.

Just a frustrating thought that I decided to share.


Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Purely amazing.



I'm fairly sure that I don't want a water birth, I might want to labor in the tub, but not actually give birth in it.  But this is one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen.


Not preggo.

I'm only posting this because I forgot to inform some people that I wasn't preggo and some people still thought I might be.  LOL.  Oops.  Also, FYI for anyone TTC, the 2 weeks BEFORE you ovulate are SO much easier to get through.  This time flys by!  It's the two weeks after that are terrible!  Can't drink, can't take hot baths, cant do any of the stuff that might harm a baby, even when there's not one in there!  This is why TTC would be SO much less stressful if you could just know right away if it worked!  Someone needs to work on a remedy to that problem!


Monday, December 13, 2010

I better be pregnant

Because if I'm not, I must be getting sick or something.  I have serious body aches, sore boobs, bloated tummy, and I'm not really nauseous but I feel like I'm on the verge of being nauseous any second if that makes any sense.

I'm only 9DPO, so my period's not due for another week.  So I'm pretty sure that this is not PMS symptoms.


Saturday, December 4, 2010

Positive OPK


Got one yesterday and one today.  That means "O" day should be today or tomorrow.  I've been a lot more relaxed this cycle.  I haven't been counting the days and I also decided not to chart temps.  It's too much of a pain in the ass and I feel like I have a pretty good idea of when I'm ovulating, so I decided to take a break from it.  If we're not preggo within the next few months, I'll go back to it, but for now I don't feel like I need to do it.



Friday, November 19, 2010

2nd cycle unsuccessful.

But I'm determined not to be down about it!  First of all, it was a timing issue again, so I've been told by my doctor that it doesn't count towards how many months we've been trying.  You only count it if you had good timing and it didn't work.  For us, James wasn't here this time when I ovulated, so it just didn't work out.  But we are hopeful for this month since he's not supposed to be going anywhere during this cycle.  Other perks of not being pregnant this time around:  I get to drink at Thanksgiving and the Air Station Christmas Party =)  YAY!  And our baby has no chance of being born anytime near our wedding anniversary!  Which is nice because I would like our baby to have its own birthday, not have to share it with another event.


Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Questions for The Birth Center

*Updated*
We went for our tour and I was SUPER impressed.  I'm really excited about this place and I think it's going to work out for us.  I still have some time to collect more information before we make a final decision as I'm not yet pregnant, so if you think of anything else I should ask, let me know.

Q: Is the center licensed by the state?
A: Yes.

Q: Is the center accredited by the NACC?
A: Yes.

Q: Once I become pregnant, when should I schedule my first appointment?
A: Somewhere between the 6th and 10th week.

Q: With Tricare Prime, do I need a referral from my PCM to make my first appointment?
A: Not yet answered.

Q: Is the entire pregnancy covered by my insurance?  If not, what additional charges might I incur?
A: Not yet answered.

Q: Will I get to meet all of the midwives who may attend my birth?
A: Yes, you are scheduled with each of the 4 midwives at least once for prenatal visits.

Q: How long are prenatal visits?
A: The initial visit is 1 hour, all others are 30 minutes.

Q: Do you perform ultrasounds?  If so, how many?
A: Not routinely, but we will perform them as needed or by request.

Q: What is your C-Section rate?
A: 4% to 7%

Q: During pregnancy, what conditions would require me to transfer to the care of another provider?
A: High risk pregnancies.  i.e. pregnancy past 42 weeks, twins or other multiples, diabetes, placenta previa, preeclampsia, high-blood pressure, previous c-section, other pre-existing conditions.  We have about an 11% transfer rate.

Q: During labor, what situations would require me to be transferred to a hospital?
A: Breech delivery, baby in severe distress, mother in severe distress.

Q: If transfer becomes necessary, what is the backup hospital and who are the backup providers?  Can I arrange to tour the hospital and meet those providers?
A: The backup hospital is Christiana Hospital in Newark, DE.  It's a 20 minute drive from The Birth Center.  We also do transfers to St. Frances Hospital in extreme emergency situations which is 1 block away.

Q: What percentage of women who transfer have C-Sections?
A: Not yet answered.

Q: Would my midwife be able to remain active in my care if I need to be transferred to the hospital?
A: Possibly, but possibly not.  Because the midwife would not longer be your primary care, it would be up to the hospital whether or not the midwife would be allowed to stay with you.

Q: Under what circumstances would my baby need to be transferred to a hospital?
A: Not yet answered.

Q: Do you have any policies that limit the number of people I can have with me during labor and birth?
A: No, you can have as few or as many people as you would like in the room with you during labor and birth.

Q: Do the midwives here routinely provide continuous support during labor?  If not, do you have experience with trained labor support (doulas) during labor and birth?  Do you encourage the use of a doula?
A: Yes.  The midwife will remain with you for the duration of labor and delivery.  We do support the use of doulas, but they are not always necessary.

Q: Do you offer intermittent fetal monitoring (with a doppler)?
A: Yes.  We routinely use a doppler for intermittent fetal monitoring, but we do have a continuous monitoring system available if we need it.

Q: What are your usual policies and practices about:  IVs, freedom to be active and move about during labor, eating and drinking, positions during birth?
A: An I.V. is not standard during labor and delivery, if we need to give you antibiotics we will give you a heparin lock.  You are free to move about during labor, eat and drink whatever you like, and you can choose any position for birth that feels right.

Q: What is the usual care if labor is progressing slowly?
A: Natural methods of induction, castor oil, stripping of membranes, possibly breaking your water.

Q: Under what circumstances would you induce labor with Pitocin or other drugs?
A: None, if that were to need to happen, you would be transferred to the hospital.

Q: Is there a time limit on labor?
A: Only once your water has broken.  Once your water breaks, you have to be in active labor within 24 hours.

Q: Do you ever perform assisted deliveries with forceps or vacuum extractor?
A: Not yet answered.

Q: What is your episiotomy rate?
A: Less than 1%.

Q: Under what conditions would you perform an episiotomy?
A: To avoid the need to transfer you to a hospital in the event that the baby is in distress.  Only if absolutely medically necessary.

Q: What drug measures for pain relief are available?
A: We do offer I.V. pain medications.

Q: Do you use epidurals?
A: No, we do not perform epidurals as there is no anesthesiologist on staff.

Q: How long is the average stay after birth?
A: The minimum is 4 hours, you usually go home the same day.

Q: What follow up care and support would you provide after I go home?
A: The midwives will call for your and your baby's vitals the next day, the 3rd day will be a home visit, there is a one week check-up for the baby and a six week check up for the mom.

Q: Can I still have a home visit even though we live over an hour away?
A: Yes, the midwives will still come to your home.

Q: Do you provide information and support over the phone after I go home?
A: Yes.


Friday, November 12, 2010

Productive day!

I spent today cleaning out the bedroom that's going to be the nursery.  All that is in the room now is stuff that will be used in it once we have a baby.  I'm so happy because that room was FULL of all the stuff we I hadn't unpacked yet.  But, I'm excited to say that I'm finally finished "unpacking".  I haven't put everything away yet, but part of that is because I need some more storage to make up for the fact that we don't have a storage shed here like we did in Hawaii.  That's a little challenging.

Also, I reserved our spot for next Wednesday to tour The Birth Center in Wilmington.  I'm really excited about this place, so I'm really hoping it pans out.  I have a list of questions to ask them and I'm going to post it on here once I finish it.  Once I post it, if you think of anything you think I might want to add to it, let me know!